
Today's guest post is written by Debra Shigley. She writes about the "Five Unwritten Rules" about the work world women need to know to succeed:
What are the secrets of women who get ahead fast? It’s not magic; it’s strategy, as I learned through interviewing dozens of successful women for my new book
The Go-Getter Girl’s Guide. Here are some of the “unwritten rules” women need to know to get the job or promotion you want, even when times are tough:
1.
A nice degree is good, but not everything. Being a hard worker and intellectual is not the same as being resourceful. Bosses need resourcefulness, and appreciate your ‘can-do’ attitude. Figure out how to solve your employer’s problems, and you’ll succeed.
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The work world is not a meritocracy. It can be unfair. Favoritism exists. Nepotism exits. You need to cultivate mentors (i.e., people who can offer pointed advice at a certain point in your career) and establish allies and advocates (i.e., people that respect your work and root for you when employment decisions are being made) in order to get ahead.
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Looks matter at work. Flip-flop office culture is sort of a lie. Colleagues do judge you by your appearance, and may cast you in a certain role based on how you dress—for the good or the bad. It’s not about being beautiful or looking perfect, but about presenting a polished, put-together image. One study even found that women that wear makeup are perceived as having higher income and earning potential.
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Work-life balance doesn’t really exist. Many successful women think more in terms of what I term work-life “triage” than balance. In other words, a constant reprioritizing of what sphere matters most at the moment—and these priorities change throughout the day, month, even years. Also, early in your career, the emphasis may be more on the “work” than the “life." You can leave early everyday to go to the gym if you want, but you won’t be on the fast track.
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It’s unlikely someone will just hand you a raise or your dream job. You have to ask for it! People that have those dream jobs and great salaries? They've taken the initiative, asked for more money/responsibility, self-educated, pitched ideas or new business opportunities, been bold-- and made those opportunities happen. You won’t always get the raise or promotion you want at exactly that time, but if you don’t ask for it, you’ll never know if it was possible. Plus, it’s good practice to build your confidence and negotiation skills.
About Debra Shigley:
Debra Shigley is a journalist and author of the book
The Go-Getter Girl’s Guide (St. Martin’s Griffin). She completed her undergraduate degree at Harvard and her JD at Georgia State, the latter while working full-time as an editor for Atlanta magazine. She has been featured as a lifestyle expert on national outlets such as The View, CNN, ABC News, and been quoted by The Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, AJC, Redbook, and many more. Her work has appeared in numerous publications including Fast Company, Allure, Daily Candy, and Heart & Soul.
Please visit her
website, her blog,
GoGetterGirls, and you can buy her new book at
http://bit.ly/1Sm0ST.
Thanks Debra!
Cynthia